Patricia Otis Cook

Dr. Patricia Otis Cook, 74, of Darien, CT, passed away peacefully on May 15, 2018 following complications of pancreatic cancer. Dr. Cook was an exceedingly well-regarded clinical psychologist and neuropsychologist who served the community over an astounding 43 years of practice at her offices in Darien and Bridgeport. She was a brilliant, loving mother and beloved grandmother.

Patricia was born in Fulton, NY to Charles Robert Otis, Jr. and Helen McNeill Otis; a star student, she was valedictorian of her high school and a dazzling pianist. She then moved to Cambridge, MA to attend Radcliffe; she graduated Magna Cum Laude in 1965 with a B.A. in Social Relations, then in 1967 received her M.Ed. in School Psychology and her Ed.D. in Counseling Psychology in 1970. Although she completed her pre- and post-doctoral internships at Yale, all three of her degrees were from Harvard University.

Dr. Cook’s career was one of tremendous professional distinction. In her private practice, she specialized in individual and couples therapy and made an enormous yet quiet contribution to the lives of countless Fairfield County citizens. As a consulting psychologist for the Stamford Police Department and for the Department of Corrections’ Norwalk N.E.O.N. program over many years, she selflessly served the needs of those on all sides of the law.

Dr. Cook was a life member of the American Psychological Association, a fellow of the Connecticut Psychological Association, and adjunct faculty for the Department of Psychiatry at St. Vincent’s Medical Center in Bridgeport, CT. Ever the student, Dr. Cook pursued post-graduate training in neuropsychology at the Fielding Institute of NYU, obtaining her certificate in neuropsychology in 2000.

Patricia’s sharp intellect was no accident; she had a tireless work ethic and was an avid reader, both traits she passed on to her children (who might describe their mother additionally as a feisty grammarian and armchair lexicographer). She traveled increasingly in her later years, visiting huge swathes of Europe and parts of Central America, though no one would accuse her of being an adventurous eater.

Patricia is survived by her daughter Meredith (Lander), son-in-law Ian, and their daughter Elizabeth of Trumbull; her son Justin and daughter-in-law Holly of Portland, Oregon, and their children Wrigley and Wyatt.

There will be visiting hours at Edward Lawrence Funeral Home in Darien on Friday, May 25, from 5 to 8 p.m. Family, friends, and anyone else whose lives have been touched by Dr. Cook are invited to join us for a celebration of her life on Saturday, May 26 at St. Luke’s Church in Darien at 10:30 a.m.

In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made to Post 53, Person-to-Person of Darien, or the Lustgarten Foundation for Pancreatic Cancer Research.

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Lawrence Paul Story

Lawrence Paul Story of Darien passed away on Tuesday, May 15, 2018.  He had recently turned 81-years-old.

Lawrence, known as Larry, was born on April 19, 1937 in Queens, New York to Henry and Mary Story. He attended Drew University before serving as a Lieutenant in the Navy from 1959-1964 in the Pacific on USS Arnold J Isbell.

Larry and Lucille married in June 1964 and moved to Darien in 1966. Their most favorite times were sailing on Anjinsan II, their Tartan 3500, on Long Island Sound up to Edgartown or bareboating in the BVI’s. They were members of Noroton Yacht Club and Darien Boat Club.

For 40 years Larry was a Realtor in New Canaan where he was President of the board 6 times and President of CAR in 1996.   

Larry had a wonderful sense of humor, always ready with a joke or a song, and was loved by his friends and family.

He is survived by his wife of 54 years, Lucille Story, sister Julie Tloczkowski, brother Thomas Story. His beloved children Kimberly, Lawrence, Elizabeth and grandchildren, Lawrence III, Liam, Colin, Maggie, Keegan and Kayleigh.

There will be a wake Thursday, May 31, 2018, from 5:00-8:00 p.m., at the Edward Lawrence Funeral Home in Darien. Mass will be June 1, at 11:00 a.m., at Saint Luke’s Episcopal Church, 1864 Post Rd, Darien, followed by a military burial at Spring Grove Cemetery, Darien.   

In lieu of flowers, please consider a contribution to the American Cancer Society, 38 Richards Avenue, Norwalk, CT 06854.

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Ernst de Flines

Ernst de Flines of Rowayton passed away peacefully at his home on Monday, May 21st surrounded by family and friends after fighting a courageous battle against cancer. He was 78-years-old.

He was born in The Netherlands to André Quirin de Flines and Titia de Flines-Leupen. After attending college, Ernst joined the Dutch Navy where he was an officer on a minesweeper. After the Navy, he began what was to become a long and successful career in advertising. In 1965, Ernst met and married Margriet Feitz and moved to New York City to be in the heart of his industry. He later switched his career to focus on database marketing and was CEO of VNU-BIS. He retired in 1994.

Ernst and Margriet were avid sailors, which led them to discover Rowayton, where they moved to in 1978 after their daughter Tessa was born. After a short stint back in The Netherlands, the family sailed back to the U.S., visiting many places along the way. This 9-month journey was one of the highlights of his life. After retirement, he focused on his passions of community involvement, boating, gardening, following the stock markets and socializing, even more so after his wife Margriet passed away in 1999.  

In Rowayton, Ernst was one of the founding fathers of the Pine Point Association and was a long-term member and former President. He was also actively involved in the board of the Rowayton Civic Association for several years. He was known by many in town due to his magnetic personality, strong opinions and open invitation to enjoy a drink on his terrace.

He is survived by his daughter Tessa, her husband Marnix Jansen and their two children Carsten and Mira, his sister Agnes de Flines, his brother Rob de Flines and wife Door as well as his long-time girlfriend Sue Ryan.

A service to celebrate his life will be held on May 25th at 2:00pm at the United Church of Rowayton.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests you consider donations to: Stamford Hospital Bennett Cancer Center: https://www.stamfordhealth.org/care-treatment/cancer/ways-to-give/; Rowayton Civic Association: http://www.rowaytoncurrents.com/?page_id=445.

Edward Lawrence Funeral Home handled arrangements, www.lawrencefuneralhome.com/.

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Louise Grace Holland, a New Canaan resident for more than 40 years, passed away peacefully on Friday evening May 18, 2018 surrounded by her loving family.

She was born in New York City on March 3, 1945, the second daughter of the late Joseph and Antoinette Pizzuto. Louise married her college sweetheart, Michael Francis Holland, and shared the next 52 years together as husband and wife.

Louise was a woman who lived her life as the gift God meant it to be. She was devoted to her husband and sons who cherished and adored her. She gave her love freely as a wife, mother and friend. Louise’s kindness and generosity of spirit brought comfort and solace to those in need while her smile, energy, and irreverent sense of humor brought happiness and joy to all those around her. Her unwavering faith and trust in the Lord instilled in her the strength, selflessness, and inner peace which she shared with others.

Louise was a Deacon at the Congregational Church and very active in Community Bible Study. She was an active woman with a wide variety of hobbies and interests including gardening, playing bridge, reading, tennis and golf. Her greatest joys, however, came from the simple things, long walks at Irwin Park or on Cisco Beach with her beloved husband, her family gatherings with her sons, daughters-in-law, and grandchildren, or being in the company of her friends.

In addition to her husband, Louise is survived by her six sons, Brian of New York City, Tom (Philippa) of Darien, Joe (Katie) and Dan (Lindsay), both of Fairfield, John (Jen) and Mike Jr. (Courtney), both of New Canaan, her sister Marianne Haggerty of New York and sixteen grandchildren, Ella, Jack, Callie, Tommy, Jane, Harry, Will, Cooper, Carter, Henry, Hope, Berkeley, Wally, Michael, Holden, and Bayard.

A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, June 9, 2018 at 11:00 a.m., in the Congregational Church of New Canaan, 23 Park Street, New Canaan.

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Jack Tarantino

Jack Tarantino, 94, a resident of Norwalk and formerly of Darien, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, May 22, 2018 at home with his loving family.  

He was born on August 25, 1923 in New York City to the late Giacoma and Henrietta Tarantino. He later moved to Stamford, CT.

During WW II, he served in the U.S. Army as a Medic with the 368th Engineer Regiment from 1943-1945.  

In 1949, he married his true partner in life, Frances Crowley. They had been married for almost 68 years. In the evenings, he attended Barber School in New York City and graduated in 1951.  

After their three children were born, they moved to Darien where he worked as a barber until he retired in 2003.

He was loved by all who knew him, a gentle soul. Jack’s passing comes just nine months after the death of his beloved wife and best friend, Frances Tarantino.

He will be lovingly missed by his sons James (Katie) Tarantino, Jay Tarantino, daughter Jacqueline (John) Piro, daughter-in-law Sherry Tarantino and five grandchildren James, Jr., Joey, Sean, Brittany and Tom Tarantino.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, May 25, 2018 at 11:00 AM at St. John R. C. Church, 1986 Post Road, Darien. Entombment will be follow at St. John Cemetery, Darien.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the charity of your choice.

Edward Lawrence Funeral Home, handled arrangements, www.lawrencefuneralhome.com.

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Paul Kreuch

Paul C. Kreuch Jr. was born on March 19, 1938 and passed away on Thursday, April 12, 2018. Paul lived an incredible life, was loved by many and was a resident of Leesburg, Virginia at the time of his passing. He lived in Darien, CT for over 35 years and was a well-known fixture at Uncle’s Deli and Colony Pizza, often arriving with his loyal dog by his side. Paul was the definition of a “people’s person” and he made a true connection with everyone he met.

Paul was the son of Mildred Kemp Kreuch and Paul C. Kreuch. He was born in Chicago, IL and later moved to Pittsburgh, PA when he was in high school. He attended Allegheny College where he graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree and is also a graduate of the Advanced Executive Program at the Kellogg School of Management at Northwestern University.

It was at Allegheny College where Paul met his wife of 55 years, Eleanor Goodyear Kreuch. He is survived by his wife and three sons, Mitchell (Alison), Matthew (Michelle) and Steven (Maria). Paul was a proud grandfather to his seven grandchildren: Peter, Steven, Tommy, Alexander, Haley, Samson and Stella. He was often seen cheering them on both on and off the field. His brother-in-law Herman Goodyear and his husband Jeffrey Trunzo were an integral part of Paul’s life.

Paul lived a life of great joy and enthusiasm. He and his sons had countless adventures, including dune buggy racing in Baja, shooting trap at Woodway (followed with a stiff Bloodies and Eggs Benedict) and going to every action movie that hit the big screen. He was fiercely loyal to his wife Ellie and loved driving his Porsche with his plate “WTF EL.” Paul loved moments big and small with his family: he never missed any of his sons’ soccer games and was a proud supporter of his grandchildren in all aspects of their lives.

Paul had a successful career in banking for over 35 years. He began his career at Pittsburgh National Bank and later joined Wachovia Bank & Trust Company in Winston-Salem, NC. In 1982, he joined NatWest Bancorp managing the US and regional banking groups. Paul became head of corporate banking and was named President and CEO and a member of the board of NatWest USA. After retiring from banking, Paul enjoyed a 15 year second career as an executive recruiter. In 1997, Mr. Kreuch was named an Independent Director at VOXX International Corporation (formerly Audiovox Corp.). His affiliations include serving on the Best Practices Council of the National Association of Corporate Directors, the Citywide Advisory Board of Neighborhood Housing Services of New York City and the Bankers Roundtable. Locally in Darien he served on the RTM and the Darien Youth Commission.

In addition to his family, Paul had a special spot in his heart for the many dogs in his life and volunteered at Tails of Courage to find homes for displaced dogs. He will be deeply missed by his mixed-breed pup Ginger.

Paul was a member of the Woodway Country Club, The Tokeneke Club, Campfire Club of America, the Grand National Quail Club and the Yale Club.

Paul Kreuch led a full and happy life, leaving behind a trail of generosity and laughter. A celebration of his life will be held on June 23rd at 5:00 pm at the Woodway Country Club, 540 Hoyt Street in Darien, CT. In lieu of flowers, a contribution to Tails of Courage, 39 Smith Street, Danbury, CT 06810 can be made in his honor.

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Rosalie Kirby Queeney

Wilton, Conn. — Rosalie Kirby Queeney, beloved mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, died on May 13, 2018 at The Greens in Wilton. She was 93.

Born in Whitman, MA on Christmas Eve in 1924, Rosalie Kirby fifth in a family of six siblings. Her father, Francis Kirby, owned an insurance company and her mother, Mabel, was an amateur artist. Rosalie studied at Emerson College in Boston and later at Forsyth Dental School as a Dental Hygienist. Rosalie worked as a hygienist for several dental practices in both Stamford and Norwalk, CT.

In August 1947 Rosalie married John Hart Queeney, of Scituate, MA. The couple moved to northern New Jersey after John began working in New York City. In 1956, the family, now with four young children, moved to Stamford, CT. In retirement Rosalie and John lived in Rowayton, and Madison, CT.

Rosalie was an active volunteer for many organizations. She and John were co-chairs of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Bridgeport’s Family Life Bureau. Rosalie headed the study abroad program of the Stamford Chapter of AFS (American Field Service), volunteered with Girl Scouts, the Stamford Arboretum, and in Madison at the E.C. Scranton Memorial Library, St. Margaret’s Church Guild, at the Allis-Bushnell House, and at Hospice in Branford, CT.

An avid gardener, Rosalie was devoted to her rose bushes, and grew rhubarb and strawberries. She was also a talented seamstress and designed and constructed countless Halloween costumes and prom dresses. She loved to cook for her extended family; her fruit pies, Indian Pudding desserts and chocolate peppermints were family favorites. As an enthusiastic reader, she may have read every book in the library at Wilton Commons, where she was one of the first five residents. A favorite Wilton event was the annual Minks to Sinks sale, where she loved to find bargains.

Rosalie was predeceased by her husband John and by her son John H. Queeney, Jr. She is survived by five children, Anne McKeown of Secaucus, New Jersey; Martin Queeney of Dayton, Ohio; Ceci Maher of Wilton, CT; Lissa Matthews of Kingston, New York; and Tim Queeney of Cape Elizabeth, Maine. Rosalie’s extended family includes 14 grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

A Memorial will be held on Saturday, June 16th at 12:00 pm at the Wilton Old Town Hall, 69 Ridgefield Road, Wilton, CT.

Memorial gifts may be made to Person-to-Person Food Pantry, 1864 Post Road, Darien, CT 06820, or Connecticut Hospice, 100 Double Beach Road, Branford, CT 06405.

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Patrick A. Zinna

Patrick A. Zinna, of Darien, CT, passed away on May 25, 2018 at his home.

Born on July 7, 1971, he was the son of Joseph A. Zinna and Dorita G. Zinna.

Patrick grew up in Dubai, UAE and later attended boarding school at Suffield Academy in Connecticut. He received a Bachelor’s Degree in Political Science and International Studies from American University in Washington, DC and pursued a career in the publishing industry.

He lived and worked in Houston, TX for many years at Upstream, Global Oil and Gas News Source. From Texas, Patrick moved to Los Angeles, CA to join the staff of La Prensa Spanish Newspaper. In recent years, Patrick returned to live in Connecticut to be closer to his family.

Patrick was an avid reader and world traveler, visiting over 30 countries in his lifetime. He loved meeting people and networking and had many friends around the world. He had a passion for music of all types and was a master of music trivia. His favorite bands were Rush and ZZ Top.

Patrick was the younger brother of Gabriella Zinna-Garcia, who resides in Texas with her family.

Graveside service will be held on Friday, June 1, 2018 at 1:00 PM at the Spring Grove Cemetery.

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Pieter L. Verbeck

Pieter Lighthall Verbeck, 79, of Chestertown, MD, passed away peacefully at home on May 21st.

He is survived by his wife, of 55 years, Linda, a daughter, Millie Spilman (John) of Baltimore, a son, Tony Verbeck (Emily) of Doylestown, PA, a sister, Ann Schenck (Tim) of Wilmington, DE and five grandchildren.

Pieter and Linda lived in Darien, CT for 38 years, before retiring to Chestertown, MD in 2010.

Pieter was born on August 28, 1938 in Syracuse, to Karl and Mary Lighthall Verbeck. He spent his childhood in Syracuse and went on to attend Syracuse University, graduating in 1961. He moved to New York, where he began a 40 year career in advertising.

After a short stint at McCann Erickson, he moved to Young and Rubicam, where he learned how to be a copywriter. He then joined Ogilvy and Mather in 1967 where he became a Creative Director. He created iconic ads and slogans, some of which are still in use today. He won a Clio Award for his work on Nationwide Insurance and the David Ogilvy Award for an ad for Cunard. He often said he had the best job in New York.

Pieter had a wonderful sense of humor — always quick with the perfect joke or one-liner to keep friends and family smiling and laughing. He was also a gifted writer and speaker, who was always hungry for knowledge. He could mimic any dialect in the world and spin a great yarn. Peter when to heaven wearing his yellow socks. He will be sorely missed.

A memorial service will be held on Monday, June 18, 2018 at 11:00 a.m., at Emmanuel Episcopal Church, Chestertown, MD.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Pieter’s memory to: Alzheimer’s Disease Research, 22521 Gateway Center Drive, Clarksburg, MD 20871.

Arrangements by: Fellows, Helfenbein & Newnam Funeral Home, Chestertown, MD. Online condolences may be sent to the family at www.fhnfuneralhome.com.

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Asa B. Bisset

Asa B. Bisset of Darien, 73, passed away peacefully at her home on Monday, May 28th surrounded by loved ones after a courageous battle with ALS.

She was born in Sweden to Axel and Signe Björkdahl. Asa was raised with her sisters Sylvia, Barbro and Annika. After graduating from the Stockholm’s School of Economics, she moved to New York where she met her loving husband of 42 years, Alfred G. Bisset.

Earning her CPA, together they founded A.G. Bisset & Company and raised five children in Darien.

An active woman and avid health nut, she enjoyed skiing in the winter and hiking the Appalachian Trail and sailing in the summer. Staying fit to the end, she practiced yoga and pilates with friends at the senior center. A true Swede at heart with an incredible sense of humor, she taught her children the Swedish language, culture and traditions, instilling a viking spirit in all.

She and Fred had endless adventures around the globe.  They traveled for work and for play, often bringing all of their children to experience the wonders of the world with them. An incredible wife and mother who will be missed beyond belief, she is survived by her husband, five children Skeff, John, Alexandra, Allison, Kristina and twelve grandchildren.

A memorial service in her honor is being planned for later this summer.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests you consider donating to ALS Therapy Development Institute, www.als.net/donate or to the Eleanor and Lou Gehrig ALS Center of Columbia University, Columbia University Medical Center, Office of Development Attn: Matt Reals, 516 W. 168th Street, 3rd Floor, New York, NY 10032.

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A memorial service for Charles Billings England will be held on Thursday, June 21st at 2:00 PM at St Luke’s Episcopal Church in Darien, CT. Charlie, as he was known to all, died peacefully at his home in Norwalk, Ct. on March 17, 2018. He was 76.

Charlie was a force for good in the Darien and Rowayton communities for almost three decades. As a lifelong classic car enthusiast, he founded the annual Darien Classic Car Show, a charitable event held each Father’s Day in Pinckney Park. In his retirement he was also an active volunteer and early supporter of Aging in Place in Darien helping seniors stay comfortably in their homes. He was an active and beloved member of St. Luke’s Church in Darien serving as Senior Warden.

Charlie grew up in Glen Ridge, New Jersey, the son of Dr. Dorothy Frame England and Charles Billings England. He was the grandson of Mr. and Mrs. I.W. England of Passaic, New Jersey and the Reverend James Everett Frame and Jean Loomis Frame of Union Theological Seminary.

Charlie, known as Bill to his Glen Ridge friends, graduated from Glen Ridge High School, New York University and Columbia Business School.

Charlie had many passions: he loved to sing, ran a few marathons, adored skiing, enjoyed tennis, squash and paddle tennis with some golf thrown in. His passion for sailing lasted for over 60 years and he sailed on the New York to Bermuda race several times. He also loved cycling and completed many charity races. He loved a project and was always fixing something.

Charlie was a warm and welcoming presence in every community he lived in over his life: from Glen Ridge to New York and East Hampton, from Chicago to Locust Valley to Fairfield County, he loved making friends and was always the life of the party. Charlie genuinely delighted in helping others and had a smile and a warm hug for everyone. He never missed a day of the New York Times crossword puzzle and only used ink.

Charlie is survived by his son: Charles England of Dallas, TX and his daughter and son-in-law Blair England and Peter Carlin of New York City in addition to his sister Constance England Roberts of Mahopac, NY and four grandchildren.

The family suggests in lieu of flowers, donations may be made to WSHU public radio, the home of his beloved Sunday Baroque radio show.

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Dorothy Elwyn Brown Clark died peacefully at Evergreen Woods, North Branford, CT on May 25, 2018 surrounded by her family.

She is survived by her daughter, Margaret Clark, her son-in-law, Mark Rupert and her granddaughter, Anna Clark Rupert, her daughter, Nancy Clark and her niece, Ann McDonald. She was predeceased by her beloved husband of 69 ½ years, James G. Clark.

Dorothy Clark was born in Mt. Vernon, NY on October 10, 1923 to Cuthburt and Florence (Coles) Brown. She graduated from House in the Pines, a college preparatory school in Norton, MA in 1940, Pine Manor Junior College, Wellesley, MA in 1942 and received an A.B. cum laude from Middlebury College, Middlebury, VT in 1944 with a major in French and a minor in Spanish. This strong language background led to her work as a cryptanalyst in the Military Intelligence Division of the War Department during World War II. Later, she earned a M.S. in Education from the University of Bridgeport.

In 1965, Dorothy began teaching French at Darien High School, Darien, CT where she remained until she retired in 1986, a career that she found stimulating and rewarding both personally and professionally. She was a creative teacher who enjoyed sharing her love of French language, literature, history and culture with her students.

After moving to Evergreen Woods with Jim in 1993, Dorothy started a French Conversation Group and led a water exercise class. She was active in the Marketing, Pool and Elder Concert Committees as well as the Resident Council of which she was President in 1999.

Dorothy’s curiosity, independence and love of travelling, language, art, dance, music, nature, and walking greatly enriched the lives of her family and friends. She was a loving wife who cherished her family and delighted in their activities and accomplishments.

Services will be private. In lieu of flowers, please make tax-deductible contributions in honor of Dorothy Clark to Elder Concerts, Inc., Box 154, 88 Notch Hill Road, North Branford, CT 06471.

Arrangements in the care of the Guilford Funeral Home, Inc. 115 Church St., Guilford, CT.

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Columbia, S.C. — GySgt William Scott Taubl, USMC (Ret.) better known as “Gunny,” 52, of Columbia, died Tuesday, May 29, 2018 after a short battle with colon cancer. Scott was the son of Ruth Tait Taubl of Darien, CT and William Johnson of Jacksonville, Florida.

Scott was married to the love of his life Catherine Wilson Taubl for 32 short years. Together they raised three sons. Scott wholeheartedly loved and had great pride in his sons.

He is survived by Adam Wilson and Shellie, Tony Taubl and Niya, and Kevin Taubl and Zenaida. Additionally, he was a proud and loving grandfather to 6 grandchildren, Jeremia, Aiden, Taylor, Phoenix, Jonathan and Natalie. Scott will be greatly missed by his siblings, Michael Taubl of Greenwich, CT, and Danielle McEwan and Marc of Darien, CT. Furthermore; he will be greatly missed by his numerous nieces, nephews and cousins whom he was a great role model and friend.

Gunny served in the United States Marine Corp from Jan 1984 – Dec 2004. He was an M1A1 Tank Crewman and Tank Commander throughout his time in service, as well as a few years of advising others as a career planner. His numerous awards included the Navy/Marine Corps Achievement Medal (with Combat V (valor) devices), Combat Action Ribbon, Kuwait Liberation Medal (Saudia Arabia & Kuwait), Sea Service Deployment Ribbon (x4), Southwest Asia Service Medal (x3), Humanitarian Service Medal and Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal (x2). He completed many courses during his career, including Infantry/Army Advance NCO course, the Tank Commander’s course and the Master Gunner’s Course.

Scott was a distinguished member of the South Carolina Patriot Guard Riders, serving as Ride Captain; he was also a member of the American Legion Riders of South Carolina and VFW Post 6933 in his hometown of Darien, CT.

Scott was always a free spirit who loved long rides exploring the U.S. on his motorcycle. He was a wonderful friend who would always lend an ear to listen and a hand to help. No job too big or small, he was there at a moment’s notice. He enjoyed playing darts and the camaraderie of friends. Quiet nights at home with Cat was always a comfort to him and family time with his sons, their wives and his grandchildren made for some of his happiest moments.

A service will be held 12 o’clock, Tuesday, June 5th, at Shives Funeral Home, Trenholm Road Chapel, 7600 Trenholm Road Ext., Columbia, S.C. The family will receive friends prior to the service beginning at 11 o’clock. Interment with full military honors will follow the service in Fort Jackson National Cemetery.

Memories and condolences may be shared at ShivesFuneralHome.com. In lieu of flowers memorial donations can be made in Scott’s memory to a Charity that has a deep meaning to your heart.

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George William Raymond

George William Raymond, dearly loved husband, father and grandfather died peacefully in his home in Riverside, CT on May 31, 2018. He was born on June 27, 1924 to Delfina Crescio and William Raymond in Stamford, CT.

George attended Cos Cob School and graduated from Greenwich High School in June 1943. George enlisted in the United States Marine Corps the very next month. He served in WW II in VMB Squadron 423 from July 1943 to November 29, 1945, in the Solomon Islands in the South Pacific. He graduated from Pace University in 1949 earning a degree in Business.

For 28 years he was an Architectural Representative and then Branch Manager for Devoe & Reynolds Paint Co. He later worked as a sales rep for Gilford, Inc., a wall covering manufacturer, and retired in October 2013.

George was an avid golfer at Bruce Golf Course. He enjoyed keeping a golf-course looking lawn at his home in Riverside. He did his own landscaping and received much praise for the beautiful hill in his backyard.

As an active parishioner of St. Catherine of Siena Church, he served as a Minister of Hospitality (usher) for more than 45 years and also worked at the Church Carnival for 25 years. Of greatest importance to George was his faith, his family, and his friends.

He married Sheila Rogan on October 23, 1954 at St. Philip Neri Catholic Church in Bronx, NY They moved to Riverside, CT on May 1, 1960.

George loved and cherished his family. Nothing brought him more joy than seeing and spending time with them. George will be greatly missed by his wife, Sheila, and their sons, Paul M. Raymond and his wife, Patricia, Garden City, NY; J. Gregory Raymond, Stamford, CT; Thomas G. Raymond, Old Greenwich, CT; James W. Raymond and his wife, Heather, Darien, CT; and 10 grandchildren: Stephen, Patrick, Margaret, Samuel, Jennifer, Colin, Conor, Sarah, George, and Kelly.

George was predeceased by his daughter, Amy Elizabeth, and his sister, Louise Sudell. He is survived by his siblings: Theresa Mackail of Jupiter, FL; Cynthia Intrieri of Cos Cob, CT; William M. Raymond, Swansboro, NC; Patricia Eccles, Brookfield, CT; Suzanne Neilsen, Bethel, CT; Charles Raymond, Woodstock, GA; and many nieces and nephews.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 AM on Thursday, June 7 at St Catherine of Siena Church, 4 Riverside Avenue, Riverside, CT followed by interment at St. Mary Cemetery. Friends may call at Leo P. Gallagher Funeral Home, 31 Arch St., Greenwich, CT from 4PM to 8 PM on Wednesday, June 6, 2018.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Good Counsel Malta House of CT, Kids in Crisis, or your favorite charity in George’s name.

To leave online condolences please visit www.leopgallagherstamford.com.

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William “Bill” Brown Shepard, Jr.

William “Bill” Brown Shepard, Jr., 71, of Darien, CT and Naples, FL passed away suddenly on Tuesday, May 29th surrounded by his loved ones after complications from immunotherapy treatment for recently diagnosed metastatic melanoma.

Bill was born in Summit, New Jersey to William and Mary Shepard. He graduated from The Pingry School and Wesleyan University where he had a long high school and college swimming career. He passed on a deep love of competitive and recreational swimming to his children and grandchildren, and any Shepard family vacation always included being on the water.

It was during college where he met his loving wife of 49 years, Midge, who came back the night they met and said to her friends “this is the first man I could consider marrying.” After college they were married before Bill served a year in Vietnam as an officer stationed at a riverboat base. He returned home safely as a decorated Navy Vietnam combat veteran.

He then received his MBA from Columbia Business School and went on to have a fascinating international banking career that brought him and his family around the world. During his 40 year career he embraced many cultures throughout Asia and the Middle East. He started at Manufacturers Hanover in New York City and later transferred with his family to Tokyo, Japan. They returned to the US where he worked at Irving Trust Bank before another international assignment in Saudi Arabia at National Commercial Bank. He later returned and worked at Gulf International Bank in New York City. He concluded his career in Houston as the head of US operations for Riyad Bank and retired in 2014.

Bill’s greatest pride and joy was his family and his life revolved around them. He was immensely proud of the adults his children have become. He adored his five grandchildren.

He led a life of great joy and enthusiasm and found so many pleasures in living his life fully. He enjoyed boating, gardening (and then frequently moving each plant in his garden to find its perfect spot, much to the amusement of his family), attending sporting events for his children and grandchildren, reading about history and countless other topics, being active in his church and volunteer communities, and observing shore life on the beach in Naples. He was very active right until his passing and cherished his daily swims, bike rides, and beach walks with Midge.

Bill was a shining light of love, positive attitude, gratitude and optimism that was contagious and will be sorely missed. He recognized every day the many blessings he had in his life, including being the friend of many wonderful people. His outgoing and uplifting personality gave him a unique ability to connect with and touch people from all walks of life. He loved meeting people and to him strangers were just friends he hadn’t met yet.

He also found deep personal satisfaction and enjoyment in helping others, especially sponsoring, mentoring, and supporting those with substance abuse addiction, and volunteering in countless other ways. He was particularly proud of his most recent volunteer role in Naples, FL where he worked with troubled youth at New Beginnings, a remarkable military influenced education program.

Bill was an active member of St. Luke’s Episcopal Church in Darien, CT and Trinity-by-the-Cove Episcopal Church in Naples, FL. He was a member of the Country Club of Darien and the Darien Boat Club.

A proud husband, father, and grandfather who will be missed beyond belief, he is survived by his wife, Midge, and their three children, two daughters-in-law and five grandchildren: Trip and Tracy Shepard (Grace, Conor, Eric) of Darien, CT; Jay and Courtney Shepard (Jay and Blake) of Litchfield, CT; and Susan Shepard of New York, NY. He also leaves behind two brothers, Dick Shepard of Holland, MI and David Shepard of Kingston, MA.

A memorial service will be held at St. Luke’s Episcopal Church in Darien, CT on Saturday, June 9th at 4:30pm. There will be another memorial service at Trinity-by-the-Cove Episcopal Church in Naples, FL in the fall.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests you consider donating in Bill’s name to St. Luke’s Parish, 1864 Post Rd, Darien, CT 06820, https://www.saintlukesdarien.org/give-online; or New Beginnings Naples (care of Captain Peltz), 3710 Estey Avenue, Naples, FL 34104, http://www.collierschools.com/domain/202.

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Peter Minton Ward

Peter Minton Ward, 93, of Darien, CT died peacefully on Sunday, June 3, 2018. Beloved husband, he is survived by his wife Audrey of 60 years. He was born on December 24, 1924 in New York City to Francis T. and Alice W. Ward. He is survived by their children, Peter, Susan, Pamelia and husband Paul, (grandsons Morgan and Brendan White), Douglas and wife Cecilia (and granddaughters Alexandra and Caitlin). He is also survived by his brother Larry and was predeceased by his brothers Philip and Thomas.

Of Counsel to Chadbourne & Parke, LLP, New York City, (recently merged with Norton Rose Fulbright) where he had been a partner for over 35 years.

He attended The Green Vale School, ’39, Long Island, St. George’s School, ’43, Newport, Rhode Island, where he was a Trustee and Chair of the Board of Trustees, and then an active Honorary Trustee, the University of Pennsylvania, ’47 in Philadelphia and its Law School ’49, where he was an Associate Editor of the Law Review and, after coming to New York, President of the New York Alumni Society.

During his professional career in New York, he served on various committees of the New York City and New York State Bar Associations and of the American Bar Association. He served also as a Director and a Vice President and member of the Executive Committee of the Legal Aid Society of New York and as a Director of the New York Lawyers for the Public Interest. Activities in Darien included service on its Representative Town Meeting and the Vestry and as Senior Warden of St. Paul’s Church. He was also a Trustee of the Norwalk Maritime Aquarium.

He served in the United States Naval Reserve, discharged as a Lt. (J.G.) in 1946.

A lifelong sailor, he was a member of the New York Yacht Club for 61 years (since 1957), Secretary of the Membership Committee for several years, then Secretary of the Club and Trustee from 1987 to 1997; Member of Library Committee 1997 to 2018; Post Captain of the North American Station of the Royal Scandinavian Yacht Club and Nylandska Jaktklubben, 1980 to 1990; Acting Post Captain 2005; member of Noroton Yacht Club, Quissett (Cape Cod) Yacht Club, Royal Nova Scotia Yacht Squadron, Royal Bermuda Yacht Club, Essex Yacht Club, Cruising Club of America (Rear Commodore, New York Station 2004-2006), Ocean Cruising Club, The Corinthians, The Links Club (New York), The Rockefeller Center Club, Wee Burn Country Club (Darien), Coral Beach Club (Bermuda), Quissett (Cape Cod) Volunteer Fire Department, Metropolitan Opera Guild (Patron).

Funeral service will be at the St. Luke’s Church in Darien, CT on Friday, June 22, 2018 at 1pm. Sailing attire requested.

In lieu of flowers, please send donations to St. Luke’s Episcopal Church, 1864 Post Road, Darien, CT 06820 or St. George’s School, 372 Purgatory Road, Middletown, RI 02842.

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William W. Helman III

William W. Helman III died on Saturday, June 2 peacefully in his home at Meadow Ridge in Redding, CT.

Bill was a 50+ year employee of Smith Barney Harris Upham, having joined in 1954 and serving as Managing Director, Senior Vice President, Chief Economist and Chair of the Investment Policy Committee throughout his tenure. Bill began his career as the computer research analyst, during a period of time when most people had never heard of a computer.

The chief delight for him in his work was analyzing and forecasting anything to do with the economy — writing weekly on investment trends, speaking at research conferences, and even inventing a predictive tool called the “Monetary Pressure Index” which correlated the relationship between stock prices and monetary policy. Bill was also a longtime member of the National Business Economic Issues Council (NBEIC) and always looked forward to attending the quarterly meetings.

Bill was a graduate of Cornell University, earning a BA in Economics in 1950 and an MBA in 1954. In between, he served in the Sixth Fleet of the US Navy. Upon return from the service, Bill almost completed the PhD curriculum in Economics at New York University. He was a real economics nerd.

Bill, who grew up in Greensburg, PA, was a longtime resident of Darien, CT and enjoyed careful attention to his lawn, dabbling in golf and tennis, music and gin gibsons at the Tokeneke Beach Club, sailing the Long Island Sound, perfecting the burger in his backyard and spending time with his family and friends.

Bill is survived by his wife Susan Early Helman, and his three children from his first wife, Nancy Solakian Helman (predeceased) — William W. Helman IV, Eliza J. Kraft, and Rebecca S. Helman, and stepdaughter Edwina Annicelli. In addition, Bill has seven grandchildren — Rachel Gerli, Aleah Vickers, Julia Hope Quigley, Beatrice P. Helman, William W. Helman V, Katie Annicelli and Casey Annicelli.

The family will hold private services.

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Mary DiRollo, a resident of Norwalk, CT, passed away on Tuesday, June 6, 2018 at Norwalk Hospital.

Born on January 31, 1931 in Port Chester, NY, she was the daughter of the late Joseph and Josephine Alonzo of Port Chester, NY.

Mary graduated in 1948 from Port Chester High School in Port Chester, NY. She worked as an executive and legal secretary for many years and then was co-owner of two food establishments with her husband, Joseph DiRollo.

Mary was a devoted wife and mother whose family meant everything to her. She loved life and was happiest when surrounded by family and her many friends. She was a compassionate soul who was always at-the-ready with a helping hand for anyone in need. She loved people — and oh how she loved music and dancing…especially doing ‘The Hustle’ to Barry White’s “You’re My First, My Last, My Everything.”

Her absence will leave a permanent void in the hearts and souls of her loving family — Joseph, Cheryl, Mark & Dana. Mom, you were the best mother we could have ever hoped for — always loving and always there for us, no matter the day or time — giving your all and then some without a moment’s hesitation. We will love and miss you always and hold you in our hearts forever.

Mary is survived by her husband, Joseph DiRollo of Norwalk, CT; three children, Cheryl DiRollo and her partner Teresa of Woodbury, CT; Mark DiRollo and Dana DiRollo both of Norwalk, CT. She was predeceased by a sister Rosalyn DiRollo of Plantation, FL.

A Memorial Mass will be held at St. Matthew’s Church, 216 Scribner Avenue, Norwalk on Friday, June 15, 2018 at 10:00 AM.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the Dementia Society of America, 114 N. Main Street, Doylestown, PA 18901.

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Constance Mary (Connie) Coventry

We celebrate the life of Constance Mary (Connie) Coventry (1932-2018), wife of Kenneth Coventry, mother of Gary and Sandy Coventry, grandmother of Owen Coventry, with these loving memories.

Connie spent half her life in Australia and half in the U.S. She and Ken and the family moved between the two countries several times. She and Ken, Gary and Sandy also lived in London for 4 years. They traveled the world extensively with many stops in Europe and game reserves in Africa.

Connie was married to Ken for 65 years and is the mother to their 2 children — Gary who was born in Australia, and Sandy who was born in New York. Connie and Ken were members of the Noroton Yacht Club for 45 years. They sailed the Ensign Platypus most of that time, frequently during the week and on racing weekends. Connie was an active DCA member and enjoyed painting class and loved nature and flower arranging for many years.

In retirement, Connie and Ken bought a residence in San Diego and spent winters there, and summers in Darien ever since. In San Diego, they were active in the Zoo, Wild Animal Park and Sea World. They enjoyed many walks on the beach, where Connie loved bird watching and particularly the Sanderlings. For many years they traveled back to Australia for long vacations until the trip became too arduous.

Connie was known for her kind, gentle spirit, and an example for those who loved her.

A Celebration of Life will be held at Lawrence Funeral Home, 2119 Post Road, Darien on Saturday, June 16, 2018 at 4PM.

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David Ludwig

Born on June 25, 1942, David Ludwig was a lifelong resident of Connecticut. He died Friday, June 15th at home after a long illness.

During his wide and varied career, Dave worked at Sprite Island Yacht Club, Santella Electric, D&H Construction, and Malkin Construction. For more than thirty years, Dave started his day with his breakfast crew of Howie and Johnny and other old friends at their favorite: Jake’s in Darien.

Dave was a man of Renaissance talents. He loved to create art and music. As a teenager, he was in a band that played the Rowayton and Darien party circuit. He made pottery and welded metal sculptures. Dave was a diehard boater (sailing and motor). He was a founding member of the Rowayton Yacht Club at Hickory Bluff. Every summer, he could be found on the water: mooring in Zeigler’s Cove or piloting a support boat for the Lighthouse to Lighthouse Race along the Norwalk Islands, while his wife rowed.

Dave was always ready for a project or an adventure. Dave would help friends and family with anything from building backyard decks, or piloting a houseboat from Florida to Connecticut, to helping a teenager get a summer job. Those who knew Dave treasured his never-ending conversations over desserts about fixing broken cars or sharing the latest scientific news and innovations. He was so loved and will be missed by many.

Dave is survived by his son, Clayton Ludwig; his wife, Mary Ellen Flaherty-Ludwig; his siblings, Mike, Kenny, and Schatzi Ludwig; and his step-daughters, Jen and Erin Cramm.

Calling hours will be 4-8 pm, Monday, June 18 at the Edward Lawrence Funeral Home, 2119 Post Road in Darien.

In lieu of flowers, please make a contribution to Regional Hospice, 30 Milestone Road, Danbury, CT 06810.

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